August 23. Although the group discussions were not intended to be specifically religious the subject often came up. Many biblical sayings have been proverbs or norms in society.  The commandment  “Love your neighbour as you love yourself” and its two parts is taken very seriously today with a great emphasis on self-esteem and one’s own healthy self-image.  At the same time balance in a couple relationship is also very necessary.   Maysie said she didn’t want to be anyone’s doormat and that has happened too frequently in the past.  Joel stated, “I think women are becoming too overbearing nowadays.   We men just can’t handle that.”  Portia added, “We really need to teach our kids constantly to keep the right balance.”

Reflect, share, scripture:        You shall love your neighbour as yourself.  Matt 22:36-40  Pope Francis: The ideal of marriage cannot be seen purely as generous donation and self-sacrifice, where each spouse renounces all personal needs and seeks only the other’s good without concern for personal satisfaction.  Authentic love also needs to be able to receive the other, to accept one’s own vulnerability and needs and to welcome with sincere and joyful gratitude the physical expression of love.  AL 157    ACTION AND PRAYER.   Is this positive attitude towards sex a good way to promote marriage and all healthy relationships?