November 10.  Bryan knew that it is hard even within families to criticise or rebuke a family member for some wrong-doing. It may well end up in a complete breakdown or a loss of trust. On the other hand, there are also cases where a brother can be a brother’s keeper and warn him and protect him from a bad habit, like gambling or excessive drinking. “What is the risk that this will be for the good or will it harm a sibling relationship?” Bryan asked himself. “It certainly can be difficult to just accept what others choose to do and be willing to forgive.” 

Reflect, share, act. Scripture:  Scripture: Jesus said, “take heed.  If your brother sins, rebuke him, and if he repents forgive him. And if he sins seven times in the day and turns to you seven times in a day and says, ‘I repent’ you must forgive him.” Luke 17:1-6.   Pope Francis: In families everyone contributes to the common purpose; everyone works for the common good, not denying each person’s individuality but encourage and support. They may quarrel but there is something that does not change, the family bond.   FT 230.  We cannot forget that mercy is not only the working of the Father; it becomes a criterion for knowing who his true children are.  We are called to show mercy because mercy was first shown to us.  AL 310   Jubilee.  The judgement of God, who is love (cf. 1 Jn 4:8.16), will surely be based on love, and in particular on all that we have done or failed to do with regard to those in need, in whose midst Christ, the Judge himself, is present (cf. Mt 25:31-46). Clearly, then, we are speaking of a judgement unlike any handed down by human, earthly tribunals; it should be understood as a rapport of truth with the God who is love and with oneself, within the unfathomable mystery of divine mercy. SNC 10.  Act and pray for compassionate concern for those suffering loss in their families.