July 8    Family conflict. When the group shared on their experience as grandparents they sometimes shared their sadness that there is conflict in so many families. It might be between brothers, or sisters, between the grandchildren or in the extended families. “Without me around to keep the peace I wonder if our family would fall apart,” Joan said. Granny Joyce loved watching wrestling on TV and she shared, “When I look at the wrestling it does make me think about family in-fighting also with us in-laws. I know that wrestling is a strange sport, lots of show but in reality wrestling is also a test of strength and skill. Learning the lessons of life is a bit like a wrestling match, even with God. Like Esau and Jacob as we heard already.”

Scripture: A man wrestled with him until the breaking of the day. Gen 32: 33.   Pope Francis. It is one thing to sense a sudden surge of hostility and another to give in to it, letting it take root in our hearts.  “Be angry but do not sin, do not let the sun go down on your anger.” How? Just by a small gesture, a little something and harmony within your family will be restored.” If we must fight evil, so be it, but we must always say “no” to violence in the home.”  AL 104. JUBILEE.   I encourage bishops to take advantage of the precious ministry of the Missionaries of Mercy, , especially by sending them wherever hope is sorely tested: to prisons, hospitals, and places where people’s dignity is violated, poverty abounds and social decay is prevalent. In this Jubilee Year, may no one be deprived of the opportunity to receive God’s forgiveness.  SNC 23.   Act and pray. For the needs of families, especially grandparents and the elderly.