September 8.   23rd Sunday B. Week 3 of marriage reflections.  Value and affirm the good. 

Fr Peter had discussed with the PPC the possibility of having a couple talent competition but they had decided that it might embarrass some of the shyer people. Instead he would invite families at home as couples and as families to honour their married couples by affirming what they saw as particularly good in them as a couple and of course for couples to share the good they see in their spouse. Using the words, “The Lord who does all things well,” from the Sunday the Mass they should consider in what ways they give glory to God through the particular gifts God has given them. At the same time they could also consider how care and commitment in nature gives glory to God. Is.35:4-7a. Jas 2:1-5. Mark 7: 31-37

Questions for SHARING AND ACTION  – for couples, individuals or groups

How well do I use my eyes, ears and tongue in seeing the good in my spouse, listening lovingly and affirming him or her? 

How willing am I to acknowledge my own gifts within our marriage? Share on these special qualities with each other and take some time out together to show that appreciation of each other. 

For others in the community: Share on some of the good you see in the marriages of those around you. Consider ways to affirm and encourage couples in their marriage, sharing how valuable their relationship is for others. Conclude with a moment of prayer. 

Pope Francis: When our hearts are authentically open to universal communion the sense of fraternity excludes nothing and no one. LS 92