November 5. Mrs Dlamini,  the parish’s volunteer psychologist shared with Fr Michael, “Isn’t it strange how often people avoid what needs to be addressed, whether it is a terminal illness and approaching death, a marriage running into difficulties and fears about divorce or issues with children, other family members or work related matters.  Is there a great fear of loss, so much so that we manage to hide it and pretend it doesn’t exist?” “Or even refuse any help that is offered,” he responded. That always saddens me.” 

Reflect, share, act. Scripture:  A man gave a great banquet and invited many. When the time came he sent his servant to say to those who had been invited. “Come for all is now ready.”  But they all began to make excuses. Luke: 14: 15-24.   Pope Francis: The life of every family is marked by all kinds of crises, yet they are also part of its dramatic beauty. Couples should be helped to realise that surmounting a crisis need not weaken their relationship, instead it can improve, settle and mature the wine of their union. AL 232. Eco-tip and prayer:  Creator God in this month of commemoration of loss and death comfort us in our pain and strengthen us in our understanding that you never abandon us and care for each of your creatures day by day.